Why did Homosexuality become so Gay?

Abdul-Hafeez Nakumbe
2 min readSep 10, 2021

I must preface this article with a disclosure notice — I did not conduct the appropriate research for this article. Okay.

“The #1 Source For and About Men” — Men’s Health Magazine. I found this magazine at several gyms and within majority of the large grocers. I have never found workouts I wanted to do and was not an avid reader of the mag. However, I think this magazine is better than instagram for gay men. I am not gay.

I used to do a lot of networking at gyms and coffee shops or anytime I could connect with people. I think there are barriers being broken within the LGBTQ community which are unspoken and nuanced around hooking up including gender pronouns and the like. I have contaminated the pronouns He/She to my liking and community. As a heterosexual male I have been hit on by gay men before. When I cut my hair — it looks like Mr. Clean. Once while working at the Courtyard by Marriott as a Barista I was given several advances by a drunk guy. I did not know the guests sexual orientation or how to receive those advances without feeling confident and awkward. I kindly declined his invitations to return to his room after finishing my shift. Bollom Bollom.

Lately I feel as if homosexuality has been being pushed through several mediums quietly and we have been showing fake love to the LGBTQ community. However, I am a ‘Certified Lover Boy’ [Drakes new Album] and I love a good romance.

The question remains is anal sex equivalent to Usher’s song, “Let it Burn”?

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